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What is stress?

Stress is a word used to describe the feelings of "distress" experienced when tensions become unbearably high.

What causes it?

Many things or "life events" can lead to stress. Common causes include:

Pressure to perform at work or being unemployed
Family conflicts and relationship breakups
Financial worries
Health conditions
Excessive substance intake including caffeine, alcohol, tobacco
Non-ideal living environment such as cramped flat, traffic jams, close to sources of pollution

What are the common symptoms?

Stress can lead to both physical and mental symptoms. The most noticeable physical symptoms include:

Headaches
Stomach ache and indigestion
Neck, shoulder or back pain
Sleeping difficulties such as insomnia
Sexual problems
Loss of appetite

Stress affects the mind with mental symptoms include:

Poor concentration
Short-term memory loss
Feeling of frustration
Irritability or anger
Apathy or depression

What are the complications?

Stress is a fact of everyday life and a certain level of stress is beneficial in preparing us for a challenge. However, extreme and prolonged stress will lower the immunity and increase the susceptibility to a wide range of diseases including gastric ulcer and heart disease.

How can I prevent it?

The best way to prevent stress from getting out of control is to be alert to the early signs of stress and to seek assistance when necessary.

What is the treatment?

Most cases of stress can be dealt with by some self-help measures (see How can I help myself). The stress may sometimes be relieved after talking with your partner or a friend. Talking about your feelings or seeking help is not a sign of weakness.

In severe cases, stress can be treated by health professionals. Treatment can include medications and psychotherapy, alone or in combination. The choice of an appropriate treatment is based on the severity of the stress, the extent to which stress affects the patient's life, and the presence of any other medical conditions.

How can I help myself?

If you are suffering from stress, there are a number of self-help measures you could try out:

Share your thoughts and worries with your partner or a reliable friend.
Keep active. Take regular exercise.
Eat properly. Have a balanced diet with lots of fruits and vegetables.
Avoid cigarettes, alcohol and drugs. They only mask the anxiety but do not solve the problem.
Look for humour in stressful situations.
Use relaxation techniques, e.g. meditation, yoga or massage.
Deal with the cause of stress, e.g. learning to be more assertive, sharing your responsibilities at work, prioritizing your work schedule, organizing your time better.

If you do not feel comfortable talking about yourself in front of others or with anyone you know, you can try telephone counseling services which can give you opportunity to discuss things anonymously. Telephone counseling has worked well for many men.

Health Alert

Under prolonged stress, you will be more susceptible to diseases due to reduced immunity.

Health Tips

Remember : prolonged stress can cause a range of negative feelings and the resulting symptoms may seriously affect your well-being. When stress becomes too much and does not seem to go away, seek medical advice or other professional help.

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Who Else Can Help?

Social Welfare Department hotline
Phone: 2343 2255

Hospital Authority Mental Health 24 hours hotline
Phone: 2466 7350

Mental Health Association of Hong Kong hotline
Phone: 2772 0047

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Phone: 2896 0000

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